Empress Njamah Reveals Why She Is Not Yet Married
Empress Njamah said this in a recent interview with The Nation.
- As one who is brilliant, beautiful and curvy, why are you still single?
I’m gonna say this alright; I don’t care how people take it, the days
when marriages were sweet and all beautiful are no more. If you listen
to how your parents got married and how those days it was sweet, it’s
not like that anymore. I’ve escorted a lot of people into marriages, I
won’t say I’ve escorted them out but I’ve witnessed them come out of it.
So psychologically it’s not good for people and then being what we are, a
lot of people think because she’s this, because she has that I don’t
think I will be able to handle them. A lot of people can’t stand an
industrious woman especially if she’s doing well. It’s the mentality of
the people. If a man looks at me, I’m a car freak alright. I have five
cars and I’m not doing it because I’m trying to show off, a lot of
people don’t even know that they are my cars.
But I’m trying to be honest with you and I’m always trying to say it the
way it is, not minding whatever. If a man comes and says because of
blablabla, he cannot handle me, then he shouldn’t bother. Every woman’s
dream is to get married but it’s not just to get married but to get
married to your friend. I want to marry my friend.
- And have you met your friend?
I’m yet to meet my friend. If I meet my friend and I know that he is my
friend, I don’t think that question should actually pop up because what
am I doing if I’ve met my friend? If I’ve met my friend I will get
married. And then, I’m this type of person that even if I meet my
friend; I don’t want to have a fairy tale wedding.
