How To Judge a Man's Sex Style In Seconds
The Top Signs has been revealed to watch out for on that very first date...
First
dates are a chance to get to know someone new, figure out if you want
to see them again and, potentially, meet the love of your life. But
apparently they can also be used to analyse whether or not the guy
sitting opposite you is going to be great in bed.
A list of
ways has been revealed to help you to work out if a man will give you an
unforgettable night between the sheets - and all it takes is a little
attention to detail...
HOW DOES HE TALK?
Everyone
loves getting to know someone, but apparently chatting with a man
doesn't just reveal your compatibility levels or a few key personality
traits - it'll also showcase his sex style.
"If they talk in a
monotone and change facial expressions once an hour, they’re
flat-lining. Low enthusiasm means they’ll be boring in bed as well. The
person who throws their arms in the air at dinner, nearly knocking over
the waiter, is full of life and passion. If they can get that worked up
out of the bedroom, just think what they'll be like in it!"
WHERE'S HE SITTING?
"Where
they choose to sit when you’re out for a drink or dinner is another
giveaway. If they choose the seat facing you and the wall instead of the
prime people-watching position, you’re onto a winner."
Yup,
having a man choose the seat which faces you, and only you, is a VERY
good sign when it comes to predicting his bedroom style - and the
reason, when you think about it, is pretty obvious.
The more their focus is entirely on you, the more they can remain in the moment when you’re alone.
WHAT DOES HE ORDER FOR DINNER?
You
read that correctly - apparently a man who's more adventurous with his
food is set to be more adventurous in the bedroom too. Spicy and exotic
foods are basically one of the easiest ways to guess if your guy will
spice things up in the bedroom. If they’re not into experimenting or
trying exotic fare, they’re hardly going to dish up the Kama Sutra
behind closed doors."
WHAT'S HIS EATING STYLE?
They
say the best way to a man's heart is through his stomach, but it seems
as if his stomach is also the best way to figure out if he'll be a
sizzler between the sheets. Watching your man tuck into his dinner is a
surefire way to tell what he'll be like in bed - and it's apparently a
case of bigger is better!
"Quite frankly, I’d put my money on
the guy with love handles who tucks in with gusto, over the one with
the six-pack who eats one steamed chicken breast every fortnight. A good
appetite usually means they’ve got a lusty libido to match."
IS HE A TOUCHY-FEELY PERSON?
We're
not talking over-the-top all-over-you, but a man who is comfortable
with others invading his personal space is apparently more likely to be
comfortable in the bedroom.
"Physical distance often
translates to emotional and sexual distance. The more comfortable they
are expressing affection, the more affectionate and loving they’ll be
during sex."
Look for arm touching, standing or sitting close
to people, hugging friends hello (or goodbye) and other little
indicators that he's happy showing his affection. Easy!
HOW DOES HE HOLD YOUR HAND?
Moved
onto hand holding? Apparently the way he holds your hand in his is a
very good way to indicate how he'll leave you feeling after a night of
passion - and, unsurprisingly, it's all about the intertwining fingers.
"Intertwined
fingers mean they’re likely to be highly erotic: they’re touching every
part of your hand which expresses a desire to be connected physically
and emotionally."
Sounds good to us! What about the less exciting hand-cupping action?
"The standard palm-to-palm clasp suggests affection and acceptance though it’s unlikely they’re going to surprise you sexually."
WHAT'S HIS KISSING STYLE?
As
Cher said all those years ago, it really IS in his kiss! Only YOU can
decide if he's got this one nailed - if he leaves you weak at the knees
with a touch of his lips, you're more than likely to appreciate his
skills between the sheets. If he leaves you recoiling in
barely-disguised disgust, it really is best not to go there. Ever.
But there's a few other little things you can watch out for...
"Men
who cup your face in their hands are romantic souls and usually
intense, passionate lovers who want full, reciprocal focus."
"Getting
a little carried away during your first kiss is a good sign; if there’s
a little groan or moan even better – who wants a lukewarm lover?"
Exactly - we'll be keeping an eye out for that when we're next locking lips with someone new...