I haven't written about marriage in a long time because, as my
husband Bill can attest, I am no expert. But there is one thing that I
know about choosing the person that you're going to spend the rest of
your life with -- whoever he or she is when you get married, what you
see is what you get. You're not going to change them because of some
vows and rings.
I recently planned a wedding for a couple who seemed perfectly in
love during the wedding planning process -- they were in sync about what
they wanted and the planning went more smoothly than most. There were
zero red flags ahead of time, and I promise you, I have serious radar
for that stuff. But oh boy, was my intuition off with this one.
The arrival went great, their friends loved the island, biobay was
amazing and then they gathered for a pre-wedding luncheon on the Malecon
(the Vieques version of a boardwalk). All hell broke loose in less than
15 minutes. First, one half of the couple was MIA -- apparently needed a
walk to "cool off." Uh oh... not so good only two and a half hours
pre-wedding ceremony, and in front of all of the guests. But then it got
seriously interesting.
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