What Sort Of A Devilish Wife Did I Marry?! - Guy Shares His Marriage Story
Just had to share this story. Sometimes we married ladies kill our marriages ourselves, then look for someone else, something else to blame for it.
Please read Mr Opetu's really sad story. What's your advice?:
My wife has been a thorn on my flesh, giving me headaches daily.
It happened that I met her in my final year in school (fellowship), we got close just as friends and within 7 months of knowing her, one thing led to the other and she got pregnant for me.
Well I accepted my responsibilty. Telling my parents also, it was actually a thing of mixed feelings being that I am the only child of my parents. At least thats like having a second child for them.
Long story short, Idecided to marry her cos of the baby..with the notion dat we woud build our early relationship in marriage .. Now issue is that my wife doesn't like the idea when my parents come to see me in my home.
She always grumbles, she doesn't have a close relationship wit my mom, mom is alwayz sad about this.
I ve been married for 5years now, my kids have only visited my parents for a week.
Anytime I bring up the idea of them goin to see them..we always quarell!!
Just last week sunday, my parents left their home so they come take the kids for the New year break, i didn't tell my wife, but she found out. It was a fight that happened ....with her tearing my clothes..
My old man and momma both cried seeing this, they had to travel back that evening seeing dat my so called wife didnt welcome them in my home.
This is just the little I can narrate !!I have two kids now, i kinda hate having a second child with her, now am thinking divorce, which I don't want to.
Tried to be patient, but its like she's getting evil advice from some places everyday.
How many years more does my parents have on earth that i won't make them happy at least to be with their grandkids!!
At first I thought this was normal, or is it a normal thing for mothers to cling to their child that way?? Maybe am too soft on her!! sigh!
I wish i never married her in the first place, I only wanted to rewrite my mistake by marrying her.
