Veteran actor, Jide Kosoko, has revealed he wouldn't encourage any man
to marry more than one wife. Here's what he told NigerianTribune when he
was asked:
- Do you regret being a polygamist?
Let me tell you, I don’t pray that my enemy should practice polygamy.
And, this should be a lesson to the young ones coming. I know some
people will say their religion permits it, but the religion did not
enforce it. I have serious business to do now. I have young children to
take care of.
- It is more than 41 days since you lost your wife, Henrietta. It
is on record that you have resumed work. How have you been coping with
life without her?
When you say how I have been coping, honestly I don’t know how to answer
that question. I don’t
know if I should tell you I have been fine or
otherwise. I can only say God has been my rock till this moment. The
truth is that I am yet to come to terms with the reality that she is no
more. I don’t want to believe that she is gone. So many things have been
coming up since she passed away and I know things will continue like
that for some time.
- When she died, there were different reports about what led to her
death. The most popular one was that she died of diabetes. Could you
tell us what led to her death and your last moments with her?
You still won’t stop asking me questions about her. Everybody knows what
led to her death. It is already in the public domain. She died of
complications arising from diabetes.\
- Why did her family insist that she should be buried in Delta
State against the arrangement you had made for her to be buried in Lagos
State?
That was the misconception that people had about the burial. Since the
day she died, her family had wanted her to be buried in Delta. There
were no issues about that at all. I was only trying to bargain for her
to be buried in Lagos.
- What kind of relationship did you have with her parents; did you receive their blessings before you decided to marry her?
Since the beginning of our relationship, her father did not hesitate to
let me know that they had customs and tradition that must be strictly
adhered to. The man told me that I am giving you my daughter but I am
not releasing the rope. So when she died, I only proposed that she
should be buried in Lagos but I am a man of culture and I respect
tradition very well. So, there was no fuss about where she would be
buried because we already knew where we were going.
- How are you coping with the insinuation peddled in some quarters that losing three wives was not natural?
Segun, why are you asking me this question? I hope you don’t want us to
discontinue this interview? I don’t want to start discussing all that. I
don’t know what you expect me to tell you. Henrietta lived with me for
over 20 years. I never expected or prayed that she would die. It saddens
my heart when I hear people saying all sorts of things about her death.
We all come to this world at one point in time and our exit will happen
one day whether we like it or not. God is the giver of life. He gives
it and takes it when He likes. I wish I could stop Henrietta from dying.
I believe she died at God’s appointed time for her. If it is my turn
tomorrow, I will not exceed that day. It is in whose place to say that
someone’s death is not natural? I leave them to their belief. I leave
them to God.
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