Two Nigerian women, Olubunmi Ajai Layode and Mo Abatan, both resident in
the United Kingdom, have proven that women don't have to be rivals just
because they had been with same man, especially if the man in question
turned out to be irresponsible. Yesterday, the women and the children
they had with their ex, Dafe, went out together. Read the post published
by Bunmi on her Facebook page:
"Mo Abatan and I hung out yesterday with our kids who happen to be siblings. I
met Seyifunmi when she was around 5 or so... and even then, her dad was
not taking
his responsibilities up with her. Every
birthday card or gift was by me. Every visit to her was at my insistence.
Mo and I remained friends and talk on the phone from time to time. She
is a good person and an amazing friend. Even after I left Dafe, we still
kept in touch. We determined that the two siblings would not turn out
irresponsible like their Dad. Seyifunmi and Tobi met maybe once on one
of the rare occasions that their father agreed to have them spend
holidays with him.
Dupe and I have been planning that the kids should hang out more and yesterday, we made it happen.
But this is the thing - even though there is very little physical
resemblance, (Seyifunmi is Dafe's spitting image and Tobi is Jopa's
spitting image), their bahaviours are very similar! Both are very body
conscious. They watch what they eat and are very slim and both have very
quick comebacks to anything you say to them. Lol. The body image, maybe
they get it from Dafe who is quite vain but the intelligence to be able
to come up with quick comebacks is defo not from him.
People
can't understand how and why Mo and I can be good friends. They say we
are rivals. I say we are not. He was not dating us at the same time. The
Bisola he dated at the same time with me sef, I also became friends
with her. I think Dafe knows how to choose good women. Women don't have to be wounding each other over men"
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