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Stop shaming me and telling me not to talk about domestic violence on social media- Mercy Aigbe appeals to the public


While speaking at the #1in3Africa walk against domestic violence organized by wife of the Ooni of Ife, Olori Wuraola Ogunwusi last week, Mercy Aigbe appealed to the public to stop asking her not to talk about domestic violence on her social media.

Mercy and her estranged hubby, Lanre, have been engaged in a social media fight over claims that
he battered her while they were still married. Speaking at the walk, Mercy said people should stop
shaming women who are victims of domestic violence.
"Violence should not be an option irrespective of whatever the situation is. Nobody should resort to violence because at the end of it all, it doesn't solve anything. It actually makes things worse. So I am here to say no to domestic violence, no to assault, no to battery. Under any circumstance, a man should never hit his wife. Only weak men, only cowards hit their wives. To women who are going through such, I would say please come out, speak about it. Stop protecting that man. Stop shielding that man because any man that hits you, he doesn't love you. The minute the man raises up his hand to slap or hit or punch you, that means there is no more love in that relationship. There is no more love in that marriage. So stop shielding the man. Come out. Speak about it and if possible make sure you prosecute such a person and the person is brought to book. Violence is a no no. It should not be condoned. It should not be tolerated and also by making sure that whoever is found wanting is brought to book. Please people, Let us stop shaming the victims. There is no shame in our pain. I am a victim and I am proud to say that I am a victim. I am talking about it because I have chosen to talk about it. A lot of people say she is a celebrity. Yes I am a celeb according to you guys, but I am also a human being. I have blood flowing in my veins. I have feelings. If I choose to talk about it, leave me let me speak out it. Do not come shaming me and telling me how I should not come to social media to say what I want to say. I have the right and I am a human being. So let me talk about it because I feel my talking about it will actually give voice to the voiceless. My talking about it will encourage one woman out there who is going through such a thing and who cannot stand up to come out and be bold enough and be courageous about it and to stand up to that bully who she calls her husband" she said

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  1. The stays of the Ooni of Ife, Oba Okunade Sijuwade, shall be
    dedicated to mom earth as we speak after an interdenominational service
    at Ile-Oodua, Ile-Ife.


    An announcement signed by the Obalufe of Iremo Quarters, Oba Folorunso
    Elusakin, Oba Joseph Ijadunola, Lowa of Ife and Prince Adetokunbo Sijuwade stated that the service will begin by
    10am.


    In the meantime, following the official announcement of the passing away of the monarch, the Ife Excessive
    Chiefs have ordered the closure of all markets and retailers within the
    historical city with speedy impact.


    It was gathered that the markets would stay closed for seven days to honour the late monarch whereas in contrast to Wednesday when residents have been ordered to remain indoors from 9am until 4pm, restriction of motion is
    now from night until daybreak in continuation of Oro Cult rituals.



    To make sure compliance, city criers had been dispatched to the city and numerous markets to
    warn those that fail to adjust to the directive to be able to face the implications.



    Although industrial actions have been occurring particularly in some locations far away
    from the palace earlier than the announcement
    was made, it was nonetheless, confirmed that each one industrial banks within the city had been below lock and key.



    In the meantime, condolences continued to pour in because the speaker, Osun State
    Home of Meeting, Hon. Najeem Salam commiserated with the folks
    of Ile-Ife and Osun State over the passage of the monarch.



    Salam who described Oba Sijuwade as an awesome chief
    famous that the monarch has executed his greatest for his folks.



    Additionally, Senator Felix Ogunwale who described Oba Sijuwade as a nationwide chief prayed for the repose of his soul.




    Fayemi Condoles With Sijuwade Household, Osun Govt

    Former Ekiti State governor, Dr Kayode Fayemi, has commiserated with the Sijuwade household, the Ile-Ife individuals and the federal government of Osun State over the passage of the Ooni of
    Ife, Oba Okunade Sijuwade.


    Fayemi, in an announcement by his chief press secretary, Mr Yinka Oyebode, described
    the late Oba Sijuwade as a extremely revered conventional ruler who had demonstrated immeasurable love for
    his topics in addition to residents inside and outdoors his area.



    He Was An amazing Monarch - Amosun

    Ogun State governor, Senator Ibikunle Amosun, has described the
    primary-class Yoruba monarch, Oba Okunade Sijuwade, Olubuse II as an amazing monarch.



    In a press launch signed by the secretary
    to the state authorities, Barr Taiwo Adeoluwa, the governor stated the transition of the chairman of the State of Osun Conventional Council is "lamentable, but in addition worthy of celebration, as a result of his life actually ran its full course."


    Lagos Speaker, Obasa Condoles With Osun Govt, Folks Over Ooni's Dying

    The speaker of the Lagos State Home of Meeting,
    Rt. Hon. Mudashiru Obasa, has despatched a message of condolence to the federal government and other people of
    Osun State over the loss of life of the Ooni of Ife, Oba Okunade Sijuwade,
    Olubuse II.


    Reacting to the loss of life of the monarch in a chat with journalists in Lagos, Rt.
    Hon. Obasa described the late Oba Sijuwade as a bridge-builder who at all times desired one of the best not just for his individuals
    but in addition for Nigerians usually.


    Ooni's Transition A Nationwide Loss - Saraki

    Senate president, Dr. Abubakar Bukola Saraki, has described the
    passing on of Oba Okunade Sijuade, the Ooni of Ife, as the
    tip of an period in Yorubaland.

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  2. The Governor of Ebonyi State, Mr. David Nweze Umahi, on the weekend
    laid the muse for the 5,000 items of blocks for the much less-privileged at Umuobuna Etiti Uburu in Ohaozara Native
    Authorities Space.


    Umahi, on the ceremony which attracted members of the state government council, conventional rulers, businessmen youths and lots of others, thanked the initiators of the challenge, African Nations Growth Programme (ANDP) for contemplating
    Ebonyi State for the venture.


    The governor added that the same challenge would happen in Izzi
    Native Authorities Space and enjoined the folks to launch
    their land for such improvement.


    Umahi, who headed straight to the venue of the
    ceremony from his working go to to Abuja, additionally mentioned that his administration and the Financial institution of Trade BoI) have deliberate to deposit N2
    billion every to fund small scale industries.


    The governor, in a press release yesterday by his Chief Press Secretary, Emma Anya, famous
    that the intention was to allow folks have interaction in productive ventures.
    He defined that the money could be made out there for any group
    of individuals within the state with viable initiatives.



    He stated: "We have concluded dialogue with BoI for the funding small scale industries and programmes. We've got supplied to deposit in a typical account the sum of N2 billion and the financial institution will add their very own N2 billion. With this, any group of individuals or cooporative that comes up with viable challenge in the present day, they'll draw from this fund. It doesn’t matter if the whole fund is spent in a single LGA. It’s going to be first come first served. That is an incentive to attract our folks out to start to do issues with their arms."


    The governor mentioned efforts have been on to settle for traders
    inquisitive about the event of limestone and salt within the state.



    He disclosed that a multi-nationwide cement firm, Larfage, was at the ultimate stage of establishing the largest cement manufacturing
    facility within the nation in Ebonyi LGA.



    He mentioned: "We have additionally spoken to about three traders which can be very a lot all for our salt and limestone. Nigercem in Nkalagu will very quickly resume manufacturing. We're additionally working with Larfage to develop the largest cement manufacturing unit in the entire of Nigeria at Ebonyi LGA. They’ are at the ultimate stage of doing this."


    Whereas the governor appreciated the ANDP for the challenge, he introduced
    that the 2- kilometre of highway requested by the organisation could be constructed.



    "Your Excellency, Ambassador Samson Omojuyigbe, we need to thanks very a lot and we gives you all of the assist. Presently, we have now superb highway community round this location and the one request you made which is about two kilometres of highway, the second you begin development, we'll do the highway to encourage you."


    Earlier, the Director Normal of the ANDP, Omojuyigbe, mentioned
    the brand new metropolis would on completion alleviate the suffering of the much less privileged and assure respectable life for the approaching technology.



    On his half, the Nation Director, Mr. Ifeanyichukwu Eze, mentioned the housing undertaking would comprise
    5,000 detached two bedroom bungalows and different services corresponding
    to colleges, water, electricity, police station, barracks, hospitals amongst others.

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  3. Kwara State Authorities, in its efforts to extend
    and diversify its income base for monetary freedom and bolstered
    efficacy in governance, not too long ago handed the
    Kwara State Income Administration Regulation, 2015 (Legislation No.6 of 2015).



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  4. Sep 30, 2008 - The Lagos State Authorities Tuesday introduced the
    suspension of the implementation of the State’s Coroner
    Regulation of 2007, which is in the intervening time being reviewed by the State’s Home of Meeting.



    The State’s Coroner Legislation of 2007, which got here into power in November
    final yr, generated a lot concern particularly inside the medical
    circle and amongst some religious our bodies, necessitating its withdrawal
    by the State Authorities which later returned it to
    the Home of Meeting for modification.


    Saying the suspension of the implementation of the legislation whereas briefing Authorities Home Correspondents, the Lawyer
    Basic and State’s Commissioner for Justice, Mr. Olasupo Sasore
    (SAN), stated that it didn't conform to public order to proceed to implement the regulation whereas it
    was nonetheless underneath evaluation including that the
    suspension would proceed till after modification when all
    stakeholders would have made their enter.


    On the briefing additionally addressed by Dr. Jide Idris, the
    State’s Commissioner for Well being, Sasore, nonetheless stated that
    in excessive circumstances the place there was severe suspicion on trigger
    of loss of life or criminal intent, the outdated regulation would apply
    however added that in such circumstances the workplace of
    the Lawyer-Common should be notified.


    Sasore declared," As a responsive Authorities, we have now determined to return to the folks to present them the chance to make their input", including that the resultant new regulation could be titled Coroner Techniques Modification Legislation 2008 when ratified.
    He appealed to the medical personnel not to make use of the previous regulation as a cowl to
    deny or delay issuance of loss of life certificates including "No physician has the correct to make use of medical process to infringe on the elemental rights of individuals. The peoples’ basic and assured proper of freedom of religion should be revered in any respect times"


    Calling on all Stakeholders to avail themselves of the chance of the general
    public listening to on the regulation, the Commissioner,
    who mentioned the brand new invoice has handed the Second Studying by the Home, additionally said
    that the Home would quickly put in the general public area the date and time of the general public listening to in addition to invite particular stakeholders to the occasion added " Their enter will allow us come out with a complete regulation that can meet the yearnings of all".




    Additionally addressing the press on the implication of the
    suspension of the 2007 Coroner Law’s implementation on the well being sector, Dr.
    Idris appealed to docs within the State’s hospitals not to cover below the cowl of the previous
    regulation to delay the issuance of loss of life certificates however slightly to be
    delicate sufficient and quick monitor the issuance of the doc "except the place there are severe suspicions of criminal intent".



    Dr. Idris stated the attraction has develop into crucial due to reviews of continued delay
    in issuance of loss of life certificates by some medical doctors within the State’s hospital
    who, in accordance with him, disguise beneath the previous regulation to
    delay the method; a state of affairs which he mentioned has not gone down properly with the folks particularly some religious our bodies.



    He additionally appealed to all of the stakeholders, particularly religious and
    skilled our bodies, to endeavour to attend the
    general public listening to quickly to be introduced by the State Home of Meeting to allow
    the State Authorities arrive at a regulation that can be acceptable to all of the individuals.




    The press convention additionally had in attendance the Particular Adviser,
    Data and Technique, Mr. Segun Ayobolu and the Particular Assistant on Media
    to the Governor, Mr. Hakeem Bello.

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