If you wish to know the types of friends to avoid, then you need to read
this. “New year new me” always the common line for most people in the
new year, but something never changes, and those are the type of friends
most of us keep. “Should I just dump my friend for no reason?” that is
the question most people ask. I tell you, if they fall into the category
of friends in this my post, you shouldn’t just dump them – you can just
kick them out.
We are a subtle reflection of the type of friends
we keep and if nothing is done, we just end up mirroring their traits.
There are several types of friends to avoid in this New Year if you want
to succeed, and I believe that you would end up seeing reasons for me.
The “Chicken Little”The
2005 award-winning movie was characterized by an infamous chicken that
was known for always screaming foul of everything. The chicken ‘ruined
its reputation by giving out false predictions and analysis. At every
instance, he felt that the sky was really going to fall.
If you
have a friend who discourages you from taking action; who gives a
negative expert prediction as to why an investment is bad, a business
won’t succeed, why you shouldn’t take risks, how your career would get
stalled because of your action, these are the types of friends to avoid
this year.
Having a “chicken little” as a friend will make you
believe the sky would fall by taking actions in life. They would want to
make you wait till the coast is clear – which may never be.
The Praise SingerFriends
who never question your decision or motive when you confide in them
should be the type friends to avoid if you really want to be successful.
Having friends who are analytical and critical in reasoning is a plus.
The ones who always sing your praises either to remain in your good
books or for any form of reward should be discarded ASAP.
The ‘Poverty Minded’ FriendFriends
like these believe that making money is reserved for some special kind
of people. They should be among the type of friends to avoid if you want
to succeed.
The ‘art of becoming successful’ is alien to them.
It seems like speaking Latin to a native English speaker. They are just
happy with the way they survive, and won’t ‘stress’ themselves out with
the hustle of making money.
They have the energy, but they just don’t believe that making money or becoming successful is possible.
The Lazy PugThey
don’t believe in hard work. All they want is the shortest cut to
success. They aren’t prepared to take upon any project and make it a
success. They always discourage you from working so hard. “Don’t work
yourself to death” is their daily anthem to you. You should avoid this
kind of friends.
The DreamerThey believe they are
gonna end up rich, but they have no plans to accomplish it. Plans,
strategies, and efforts aren’t part of their life schedules. They keep
records of the number of cars to buy, houses to build, and places to
spend their fictitious holidays. If you keep such a friend, you might
end up becoming a day-dreamer also. These are the kind of friends to
avoid if you want to succeed in life.
The ComplainerThis
type of friend complains literally about everything – his shoes,
clothes, boss, car, even air. When things aren’t going as planned, he
nags and leaves everyone around depressed.
The Rigid MindThis
type of friends will always want to win in every argument. They see any
idea that doesn’t come from them as irrelevant. Even when they agree
reluctantly, they will reach any length to frustrate the idea just to
prove their initial point.
Friends like these are toxic, and they
should be among the types of friends to avoid in 2018. I wrote just 6,
and you should join the conversation by adding yours in the comment
section.
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