There are signs that shows you are getting into the wrong marriage. Many
people see these signs but overlook them in the name of love, "he or
she will change", marriage will settle it or whatever. These signs came
to many divorced couples in their relationships before they even got
married.
"Their should be no mercy" on nonsense before marriage.
What do i mean? you need to trash out all your inconveniences with your
partner before marriage. Their should be nothing like managing
confusion when your fiance or fiancee is close to someone of the
opposite sex and says "we are just friends", or you see your fiance or
fiancee with a group of bad friends, and he or she does not want to give
them up. Make sure you are very okay with your partner before you
marry. Dont assume anything, verify till you have peace of mind.
Marriage is destiny, not dating...
I will like to tell you some signs that shows you are getting into the wrong marriage...
(1) EXCESSIVE SWEETNESS:
My brothers and my sisters, whenever you enter a dating relationship
that is just sweet sweet sweet sweet sweet exciting from the beginning,
please watch it. I may be talking nonsense to you, but please watch it..
That is how sweet sweet sweet things have "buried" people to 419, false
prophets and so on. It is not bad to have an exciting relationship; but
if it starts with sweet sweet sweet sweet, their may be a cover up
somewhere. Please pause the excitement and ask God to reveal your
partners original colour.
(2) INSTABILITY: In the bible (Proverbs 5:6), they described a harlot as someone whose ways are moveable that one cannot know them
.
My brothers and sisters, if you wanna marry a guy or a lady, and you
hear things like "she is just a friend to me", "I didnt see your
call(after 10 missed calls from morning till afternoon), "call me back
call me back call me back call me back", "I am not around, am in the
bank (and you are hearing heavy traffic in the background)", or you see
some persistent unstable moves; then you are in the wrong place..
(3) ANGER:
Some may say, I am nice, helpful, good, obedient, but can be
hot-tempered. My brothers and my sisters, if you are dating someone and
upon provocation the person smashes a bottle of glass or breaks an
object, be very careful in such relationships. Sometimes, these people
could demonstrate such anger and later beg for forgiveness. But my
brothers and sisters, if they kill you in the process, "they will still
apologize to your corpse". Whoever has hot-temper should tell God to
deal with it before he or she marries.
(4) BEING MADE TO BE NEEDY:
My next-level brothers and sisters, if you are praying for your partner
and your partner is not praying for you, you are pretty "irrelevant" in
the relationship. If you are praying for the relationship to work-out
and your partner is relaxed, then you are pretty "irrelevant". It does
not make sense to pray for a wife or a husband, while the wife or the
husband you are praying to get does not see you as an answered prayer.
Please anywhere you are not honoured, leave that place. You will be
"dehydrated" if you go into a relationship where you are managed or made
needy.
(5) IGNORING DREAM REVELATIONS: Your partner could
be so nice physically, but if you notice that whenever you sleep, you
see him or her as an angry beast in your dreams, a deceiver or an evil
personality; it is then time for you to go into deep prayers, thoughts
and watchfulness. A time when you should watch your partner very well
through dreams is when you genuinely love your partner physically
without suspicion, but see him or her as evil in your dreams. If you
hate or suspect your partner and see him or her as a devil in your
dream, such a dream may be false because you already have a negative
picture about your partner.
(6) IGNORING YOUR PEACE OF MIND:
Some ladies saw this sign but still jumped into marriage. They had this
restlessness, but still waved it and forcefully silenced their minds
and conscience with other reasons like "he is still nice though", "he is
prayerful", "he is a church leader", or whatever reason it may be. If
you are loosing peace about someone you wanna marry, dont marry yet. You
need to intensify prayers, watchfulness and verification.
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